Confidence and Arrogance

 Everybody is afraid to be confident; they think it is arrogance, all that because of the false conceptions we obtain in this third world. 

Confident people "believe". Arrogant people "think". Confident people believe that they are beautiful, that they are smart, they believe that they are funny, they believe that they are kind, they believe that they are different and unique, they believe that they are worthy of all good, love, and success. They believe that they are not too much, but they believe that they are always enough; they accept themselves as who they are no more or less. They believe that they are precious to their families and friends, and even if nobody shows them affection, cares about them, or agree with them; loneliness is never a bother for them and at the same time, they are respectful and lovable with the others. They always look for the correct, suitable thing to do, not for wrong things, or to satisfy themselves only in the benefit of others. They are themselves and they never copy others personalities or behaviours. They know who they are; what they have as talents and abilities, and they work on themselves, they believe in their choices, and correct or change the way if they know they are in the wrong path. Confident people admit that they are wrong when they are wrong and look for any possible solution to correct themselves, or to make themselves a better person, they believe that they are human being, neither Angels nor Satan; they listen and accept the pieces of advice given by people. They do not allow anybody to asses them and they do not wait for any person to show them who they are, they know that there are some borders for others not to cross, and they just do not surround themselves by the persons who try to destroy them, or to doubt their credibility, or to lower them. They believe that the once who correct them are normal people not extremist in their behaviour. They believe that the persons who give them fake hopes and unnecessary satisfactions and motivations are liars and not essential to listen to them. Confident people listen to the others in discussions, and they know that their opinions are worthy to be heard, as they respect, and hear the others and accept all sorts of representations. They do not judge and they do not mock, they have good ethics, they know what they are doing, and in this way! Even if they fall down, they know how to stand up again. They never do something against their principles and values. Also, they never follow people who oblige them to do what is against their principles and values and at the same time, they keep showing respect. They accept everything they made it wrong or if it is a mistake, they never fear mistakes because confident people know who they are; they are always correcting and improving themselves. They do not show off a lot, and they do not hide away. They do their best to understand others before judging, they open their minds. They never try to compete any other person; they are in a competition with themselves only to become better than yesterday. When they are good at some things, they know it, and they believe it, but they do not go and tell everybody, they just let their work makes the chaos. Confident people work and think, they work to achieve good results, and think and use their mind, and they do research, and talk only when they are sure about what they are saying. Confident people are never selfish, but they love themselves. They believe that when there is wrong, it must be corrected, it must be guided, and they have the sense of intuitiveness in changing what is wrong not looking for titles or names or whatever it make them be famous or satisfied. Confident people are not stupid revolutionary, they are just ready to say the right word in an organized civilized manner, and only when necessary.

Arrogant people are all the opposite. Arrogant people are those who oblige the others to follow them because they don't trust themselves if they are doing the right or the wrong thing when they are walking on the way alone, they are always trying to fake something they do not have and never get satisfied of themselves because they try to copy the world, and try to get all the good in people and make it on themselves in a negative way. They always seek attention, and they talk about everything and everyone without thinking, they like to interfere in everything and they like to make themselves look like a victim but out of nothing, just to show off. They never admit if they are wrong because they think that this is a lowering behaviour of their personality, they always give a series of excuses. They are always looking for mean ways to make people fall down, and when they see someone confident, they allow themselves to assess them and tell them that you do not deserve this success or such position, or such talent because they think that it is only allowed for them no more. They never encourage others and look only for their business and satisfaction, and out of social necessities, they are never okay to be alone, they do not accept criticism, and when somebody tells them that they are wrong, they just create drama all around. They never change and they keep on their behaviours they like to see others hurt. They tell you that they r different, they can be revolutionary, but anarchists. Arrogant people are backbiter and judgmental; they try to satisfy their ego only with heads full of people. So when someone tries and do their best and work hard there is no wrong to be confident, but people who are bloated like balloons by others, there is some way in this society who accepts too much wrong things and must be fixed as soon as possible. It is okay to be confident, and it is okay to love yourself, it is okay to create and do what you love, and to show it in the right way. It is wrong to be arrogant, it is wrong to shows off, it is wrong to do things without thinking because at the end Arrogant people are the once who never trust themselves.